14th year house bound

[Jacques]

Karen please talk care of yourself, forget about me, your time in the MHU is all about you. getting you well, please stay safe.

[Appleblossom]

Crying in of itself can be very healing .. @Jacques

cleansing the soul ... or whatever you want to call that part of ourselves.

... apart from the unwanted snotty bodily fluids ... yuk.

Now I can go and cook dinner

[hiddenite]

Oh Jacques I know how long its been since you've cried. Maybe its a good thing a healthy release of built up emotions.
I wish I could sit with you and comfort you. Im here j when you are up to it. Baby steps my friend.

[Former-Member]

Agreement with everyone else and hoping that the crying gives you some release. look after yourself gently tonight. Hope that you are able to sleep afterwards and rest.

[hiddenite]

Jacques I will ne v er forget you. I am here unconditionally. If I could I would be with you holding your hand until the tears have fallen
Im so lost in this place so overwhelmed. You are my priority my friend.

[hiddenite]

Jacques don't forget your breathing. Try to slow it down. In count to 5 slowly out count to 8 all the way out. Take your time.

[Jacques]

Thank you Karen,

you are a wonderful friend, i feel so bad, feeling so low, when you are the one who needs support.  i am feeling so lost, due to our agreement with the moderators i can't go any further with this conversation.

Karen i so wish i could help you more, i hope the girls are coping.

I got some really bad news on wendsday mum made arrangements to have Christmas lunch at her friends place, after i told her 3 times i want to be alone, she just will not listen, for the past 2 days i have told her i don't want to go, but she is adament i have to attend this stupid Christmas thing, i so hate hollidays and special occasions, it brings nothing but misery for me.

Sorry KAren, i really can't talk tonight, i will be removed if i keep going, just really low.  sorry..............

just sorry........

[Jacques]

i am safe @CherryBomb

[hiddenite]

Thanks for letting me know Jacques. It must have come as a great shock. Especially when you weren't aware of the plans she made.
it has been a really emotional week for both of us.
I completely understand why you are ubable to talk Jacques.
Maybe you could just tell your mum that you will drip her off and pick her up at an arranged time. Even if you find a parj and just sit in the car until she's funished.
sorry j thats all I can think of.

[CherryBomb]

Thanks for letting us know that you're safe.

@Jacques I want to remind you that we've never mentioned you getting removed. 

I can understand if you don't want to talk. Though by the sounds of it, it may help to talk through what's going on with your mum, and christmas plans. As we've discussed it's ok to talk through events and situations that are causing you distress.

CB